I Know...I Know...
They told us NOT to place the babies in the tub b/c it wouls scare them... well her big self would not fit in the sink so tonight I put her in with Nathan and they had a blast as you can tell!
This was in a department store at the mall.
Huge Mall and market
Inside the pearl and jade market
As you can see, God has blessed us!!!
I know... I know... everyone is wanting more pictures!Just to fill you in on how our last 2 days have been going, I'll sum it by saying I've had a 30 pounder attached to me like glue, I bairly got a shower much less turn on the computer.
After we returned from gotcha moment, Kellum-Ann took a nap and when she awoke she realized that we were not just some cool visitors that jumped at her every whimb... she realized that she would not be going home. At bedtime she grieved so hard. She was calling for someone, her nannie I suppose and it was hard to watch. The next morning she did great but it hit her off and on all day. I was able to cope pretty well until yesterday when Nathan started getting upset. Of course he did not understand, I really didn't myself but let me tell you... today was alot different. She did not cry a time all day except just now at bedtime. bedtime is really hard for her. As I said before, the Director told us that she was a favorite and was spoiled by the nannies so in my mind I feel that she probably had a special bedtime routine. well tonight she only cried for about 5 minutes instead of last night's 30. so we are making progress. I feel that we will have many more trying days but I know that she knows we are here for her and that we love her. At the moment, she will not have alot to do wiht Blair. He is ok in her book if I am holding her. She plays and laughs at Nathan and he feels alot better today. He tells me often that she is beautiful.
We went to the toy market, pearl market and jade market today so we were busy. Guess where we ate... Pizza Hut! It was wonderful!
Here are some pictures... hope you enjoy. Thank you for the emails I ahve read them all, please underatnad that I don't have time to respond to them now, but they helped get us through those rough hours. Sorry for the grammar and misspelled words, really tired tonight. We go for her medical exam tomorrow anad then to tour an orphanage.
Please pray for our plane trip home... i'm afraid it will be rough for her... but who knows, God is in this thing so He will strengthen us!
V.
posted by Blair, Vicki and Nathan @ 5:40 AM
27 comments
27 Comments:
Vicki,
She is a doll!! Nathan looks like he will be a BIG help. Tell Blair not to be upset it will all happen in time. Remember that God does not promise that the road will be easy, he promises that if you lean on him he will get you through. Some of lifes greatest moments require a struggle. But in the end we reap the reward. Lean on God and all will be fine. Thank you for sharing your experience with us, we enjoy seeing the love that you and your family have.
Blair, Vickie, Nathan and Kellum-Ann we will continue to pray for you on each and every aspect of you trip. Blair, your time will come, just remember she has not been around a lot of men at this time in her life and she will warm up to you as she continues to feel your love for her. Before long it will be da, da this and da, da that. Nathan, I am so excited for you to have a little sister. She will always have someone to look up to and respect. (Hey and someone to take care of her with all the guys.) I am so excited for all of you and can't wait for you to be back in Alabama. Love Ya, Tim, Cindy & Angel
Blair, Vicki & Nathan,
The last thing I did before I went to bed last night was check the internet. The first thing I did when I got to work this morning was check the internet, but still no new pictures. Then...45 mins. later Cindy said "we've got new pictures". Of course everyone hurried to the computer. I know you are exhusted, but I hope you can feel the prayers being lifted up for you. So many people are praying for you. We'll be praying even harder for your trip home because that will be a long time on the plane with a small child. We'll pray that she will do good. Can't wait to see you. Lots of love, Rhonda
Vicki, Blair, Nathan, and Kellum-Ann:
We just wanted you to know how excited we are and can't wait for you all to get home. Shanna and Shalyn are being updated at school with Mrs. Parker. They have to tell me all about it. Of course, I tell them I check this website three plus times a day!
Kellum-Ann is absolutely beautiful! She and Ashley can dance their little hearts out! I can't wait for Ashley to meet her! I know it will an immediate connection. We all just want to hold her and love her. I'll go ahead and apologize now because I know Ashley will introduce Kellum-Ann to CANDY! Maybe she won't wake up in the mornings and ask for it like mine does!
Anyway, we are praying daily for the safe return of everyone. Blair, know this: little girls have a special bond with their da da that no one can break. Just be content to know your time will come very soon.
Everyone at church is eager too! We will see you when you get home!
Love,
Cindy, Shane, Shanna, Shalyn, Ashley
Parkers,
The pictures and info are wonderful. Jackie Whaley can't wait for you guys to get home. I loved the bathtub picture. Kellum-Ann does look so much like your family and you can certainly tell from all the smiles how happy she is. She will someday be so thankful that the good Lord chose such a wonderful family for her. I know God has had His hand on you all and has and will continually bless you all. Vicki, we sure miss your bright smile and positive attitude here at the office and with the updates, almost feel like we are with you in China. We will continue praying for every step in the journey HOME. I love you, Kim
Hi Vicki, Blair, Nathan and Kellum-Ann,
Lon and I think of you every day. I have showed almost everyone in the office the new edition to our family. We are so happy for you guys, that every time I read a post or something you have written or look at Kellum-ann and Nathan together I start to cry. Your family has something beautiful, and God has blessed you guys with many things. We pray for a safe trip home and we look forward to seeing you guys soon.
Love,
Catherine and Lon
Blair it could be the hat she don't like! Kellum-Ann might just be a bama fan. Roll Tide!
Vicki I know it is so hard at bedtime and I feel for you. It will be only a few days until she cries for her mommy.
Have a safe trip home.
Laine
She is perfect!! I know its been hard to adjust but it will get better. Yall are all strong in your faith and God will be there for you. I pray that yalls trip home will be a peaceful trip. The pictures are great keep them coming! Jody
Vicki, Blair and Nathan,
She is beauitful. And definately a gift from God!
I am so glad for you all. I must warn you that as much as Calvin wanted Joseph he has moments when he misses being an only child and would send Joseph back in a heart beat. But he still loves him. It takes a while to learn how to be a big brother.
I love you all and am praying for you. I can't wait to see her in person.
Love,
Kim Anglin
Blair and family,
L Clark gave me the email address and I had to look. I know this is a special time for you and your family. Have a safe trip home.
Mike Preston
Hey Parkers!
Glad to know things are going better. Momma talked to Mrs. Barbara and she told her she was crying alot. Nathan, You look like (and I know you are) the BEST big brother! Hope yall have a good day and remember that God is with you and He is watching over you! Can't wait for yall to be back in Randolph County! Thanks for keeping us updated on how everything is going!
GOD BLESS!
Love,
Chelsea S :)
**Mrs. Vicki, You have got to bring Kellum-Ann to the dance studio the Monday after yall get back. Even though it is not my night to dance, I'll be up there waiting to meet her!! haha
~Chelsea!
Hey Nathan,
Congratulations on being a "big brother". I know you're having fun in CHINA!Kellum-Ann is so cute!We've missed you at karate. I love seeing all the pictures of you guys and hearing about your trip. I hope you and your family have a safe trip back home.
See ya soon,
Laura Prestridge
Hey Guys - loved your last message. I'm just happy her crying spells are getting better. Vicki - talked to your Mom today - she is so excited but so is everyone. Heather and I have been printing pictures today - getting ready for the big reception - it is going to be beautiful! Wish ya'll would hurry home so we can get a glimpse of this baby girl and actually touch her. Love ya'll. D & Jacky
HEY VICKI AND FAMILY,
I HOPE YOU GUYS ARE HAVING A GREAT TIME. KELLUM-ANN IS A DOLL. I CAN'T WAIT UNTILL YALL GET BACK.
NATHAN LOOKS LIKE HE IS ENJOYING HIS SELF. I WILL BE SURE TO PRAY FOR YALL.
GOD BLESS YALL,
MALORIE
Hey Mrs. Vicki!
Oh my goodness! She is soo beautiful!!! I love the picture of her in the tub....it's adorable! I read your blog and i know everything will be okay! I just can't wait till yall get home and im sure she and yall can't either! I bet yall are having the time of your life: gettin a new baby and touring China! I love yall so much! Good luck through out the rest of your trip and on the way home!
Love you!!
Alexus Briana
Hey Mrs.Vicki!
Kellum-Ann is so cute and I am so excited to see her!I love all the pictures the one of Nathan kissing her is so sweet! She is so lucky to have yall as her family! Well i cant wait till yall get back!!
Love Ya,
Caitlin Allen
Vicki, Blair, and Nathan,
Being away from Randolph County I miss out on so many things....I just found about your great news tonight. I am so happy for you guys. Kellum-Ann is beautiful and she is so blessed to be going home with such wonderful people. I have enjoyed your pictures and Vicki you are just glowing! God has truly blessed both you three and Kellum-Ann. I will be praying for you as you begin your new journey. Love you lots!
Kelli Johnson McMurray
Dear Mrs. Vicki,
The pictures of your family are beautiful, and we have really enjoyed reading about your entire adoption experience on the website. Thank you for sharing this remarkable journey with everyone. It has been such a blessing to see your prayers answered in such a beautiful little girl. We are praying for a safe (and calm) trip home for you all, and will continue to pray for Kellum-Ann's acceptance of her new family and new home.
Doug, Mary, Natalie and Nathan Brown
Hello all,
Blair don't be to hard on yourself about Kellum-Ann being distant, she has probably not spent much time around many men. Don't worry she'll be wrapped around your little finger before long. As you know girls have a special connection with their daddy. Patience is the key. Just remember you have your whole family behind you. We love you and hope to see you home soon.
Benita
Hi,
It was great talking with you last night. I'm glad things are better for you. She's a Parker now! We can't wait to get her home on the farm. Nathan, you are doing a great job! Oh, G-Daddy found two new baby calves yesterday. Number 17 and number 44 delivered. Wendell found them, too, when he fed them. So, add two more to your total. We are praying for your safe return. Take care and keep us posted. Love you,
Me Moma
oh my gosh Kellum-Ann is sooo cute and beautiful. the one in the tub is so sweet she look like a parker already and i miss yall
love angel
p.s-yall hurry up in china you have enough people waiting to meet the sweet thing so i love yall and have a safe trip home...:-}
Vicki- Karlee grieved deeply as well when we got her. Reassure Nathan that it will get better. He is an awesome big brother and he will be one of the reasons she does well. This too shall pass!!!! Email me if you need too- jamfam94@yahoo.com
Lori
Hi. Your experience is very similar to mine with Sylvie. She fell into a dead-sleep for about four hours in early evening after gotcha and when she woke up she cried for 3 hours straight inconsolably. I rocked her and sang every song I could think of -- so did my husband. After 3 hours or so (was 11 p.m.) she looked straight into my eyes, stopped crying, and hugged hard. After that she had some spells but not a lot. But I have no idea what Sylvie's status was in the orphange so I don't know that she was "a favorite." All the books say that if your child had a good attachment to a caregiver, she'll grieve hard, but attach well to you. So while the crying is difficult to hear it is a natural part of the adjustment.
Sylvie liked Steve right off, but preferred me. However, after the first day, Steve began feeding her at meals and this won her over. Start with him offering the baby snacks, goldfish, etc. and graduating up to meals. It worked for a couple in our group where the baby wouldn't got to the dad!! Just always take over yourself if she gets distressed. It'll work!!
Gina, mom of Sylvie, from suixi
mostly if we tried to get her to walk, feed herself, or especially changing her diaper.
I can't wait to see her she is so beautifull little girl.Nathen looks like he is having alot of fun.Ihope yall have safe trip to woodland.
Love,
Selena
Congratulations! We are so glad that you have shared Kellum-Ann with us. You have truly been blessed. Hopefully, you will have a safe and uneventful trip home. We are looking forward to having Nathan introduce us to his new baby
sister.
Lots of Love,
Luanne and Ali
Vicki, Blair and Nathan--
Keelum Ann is absolutely beautiful...even more beautiful than the healthy, content baby that I shared with you that I had in my dreams. Thanks so much for sharing your story with all of us. We have enjoyed so much checking for daily updates. However, we get personal updates daily from the "proud grandmother" each day at school. We can't wait to see her, meet her and love her.
I know she will be a great dancer, but we also believe she will be a future "Lady Cat" with Ashley!!!
We are praying for all 4 of you daily.
With love,
Robin, Larry, Trae, Courtney, and Leah
mrs.vikki
i have been praying for you guys i
have seen her she is so pretty
ican't wait to see her tomorrow if
she is at dance.
from
madeline farmer
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